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Giving at The Core – Part of Our Human DNA

Whilst Amitié Lane is a business that provides gifts for girls, ‘giving’ as a whole concept is a really important component of our business. I’m really passionate about the idea of giving but really, what giving means

It is a very innate thing that we as humans want to do… Gift giving has long been a favorite subject for studies on human behavior, with psychologists, anthropologists, economists and marketers all weighing in. They have found that giving gifts is a surprisingly complex and important part of human interaction, helping to define relationships and strengthen bonds with family and friends. 

In a recent interview with Paul Dunn, Chairman of B1G1, I asked his thoughts on this topic… Below is his response:

“Yeah, there’s all sorts of studies which would suggest that it’s in our DNA, that we really need to be giving. But what I know is that it’s, and I hope this comes across the right way, that it’s really self-serving to give. Let me give you a simple example; here in Singapore outside my condo, there’s a bus stop. It’s just amazing to be here in Singapore as you know, public transport is unbelievable. When I get on the bus in the morning, I say to the bus driver, “Hey, thanks for stopping,” Just that. That simple little thing.

Not surprisingly, people look at me and go, “Whoa, what was that?” And then when I get off the bus, I just wave in the mirror and say, “Hey, thanks.” 

What’s so interesting is, I feel better doing it. It’s almost better than getting on a bus. The bus driver is like, “Oh, wow, that’s really cool.” So we all feel better when we give and that, I think, is the underpinning thing. 

Let’s ramp that up a little bit and recognize that those of us who can get up in the morning and have a hot shower and a cup of coffee or whatever, there are people in the world who can’t do that, who can’t go to school, all of those sorts of things. So I think that we have a deep obligation to give in that sense as well, provided we’re very careful about how we do it. 

There’s a bigger concept there – we are all one – what I do to you, I do to me. So being able to put giving at the core of what you do is really important.”

The thing I love about what Paul is saying here is that we often think of giving in terms of money and one’s ability to give a certain amount.

But the act of giving means so much more. It means time, attention, compassion, presence, wisdom and a multitude of other things. But even more important is the concept that because giving to others directly affects how we feel, it makes the act even more significant.

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Amitié Lane gives to girls all around the world, as part of the global giving initiative B1G1. To find out more about our giving project, click here.